Unforgiveness is holding the offender liable for an offense… AKA debt.
When we harbor unforgiveness, we are holding them responsible for a debt that they cannot pay. A debt that Jesus already paid in full.
When we overlook the price He paid and put our offender on the cross; our actions say the price He paid was insufficient.
My friend, you cannot collect on a debt that has already been paid.
Take your offender off the cross and give thanks for our Fathers ultimate sacrifice. The sacrifice that gives you freedom.
Pray for the offender and move on. You’ll find traveling your journey will be much easier.